–I wanted to write some sort of x-number of reasons so far an Asperger’s man piece (a form of autism). The issue is, I have only dated one, I am still dating him, and as long as he suggests before all of the rings, earrings, and formal apparel in my Pinterest planks go out of fashion, I am done dating others. Moreover, let’s be fair, some guys are jerks, and it follows that some Aspie (Asperger’s) guys are likely jerks too. I can not categorically recommend all Aspie guys.  Just mine.  But he is taken! Having said that, I have a great idea about what behavioural traits led other women to pass on the man who sparked my fascination with ombre wedding dresses. I’m beyond thrilled that those girls are missing out on what I have, but I endure less ill will toward everyone else. I’m delighted to share 7 things which aren’t reasons to date a man with Asperger’s.1. He’s awkward. When he had been interested in me, before we began dating, he introduced me to an acquaintance as”Shannon, not Shannon, my girlfriend… only Shannon.” It was so damn endearing, I forgot to be ashamed. (A couple of days later, I was his girlfriend.)2. Never underestimate the creativity of an aspie man, especially one as smart as mine, obsessed with making a woman happy.3. In my experience, the degree of weirdness a individual accomplishes is often proportional to the quantity of wisdom and creativity they have. If you are not a little bit weird, you’re boring, and I really don’t like you.4. He is blunt.I don’t need to wonder how he feels about me. He is constitutionally incapable of lying, and even if he could lie, figuring out exactly what I would want to hear is not something his mind could manage.5. He appears unemotional. Not displaying emotions differs from not having them. I have dated men who cried during chic flicks who, nevertheless, managed to hurt me in inconceivable ways. Aspies, particularly adults on the spectrum, are loyal to a fault and demonstrate affection in practical ways.6. He can not take a hint. God forbid you should have a person in your life who will happily do whatever you ask of him since he is so damn happy to have a surefire means to demonstrate his affection for you (see above).7. He is a nerd. Nerds wish to learn about and understand whatever catches their attention. If you’re fortunate enough to catch the attention of a nerd, your likes and dislikes might just be the greatest subject and/or ability they aim to master. Don’t knock it until you’ve tried it.Granted, an As[ie person, like any other, will pose dangers. The things above can, respectively, equate to socially devastating, compulsive, disturbingly odd, rude, cold, obtuse, and interested only in matters that are not you. But occasionally higher stakes come with larger payoffs. 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