Knowing the Codependent and Borderline Personality Disorder Relationship Dynamic

Dedicated to advocating a fresh outlook for individuals, and offering them the necessary tools to create an authentic, fabulous lifestyle – Ashley Berges, syndicated talk show host of Live Your True Life PERSPECTIVES, founder, and host of The Celebrity PERSPECTIVE (a new web series launching this autumn ), is also renowned life coach, in-demand keynote speaker, modern philosopher, acclaimed author and clinical psychologist.

With over 100k followers on Social Networking and a series that airs six days a week, both nationally and globally on multiple platforms & networks such as iTunes, Spreaker, iHeart Radio, Radio Monterey, KLIF 570 News, and Identify Radio UK.   Ashley, often called”The Man Whisperer,” winners her knowledge and expertise to coach people on how to: expose dating, sex and relationship pitfalls, deftly navigate through divorce, confront the challenges of the family afterward, cultivate influential leadership abilities, and winner your true life.   She has  authored the celebrated book”Live Your True Life” and her latest”The 10 Day Challenge to Live Your True Life,”  the guidebook for active men and women who wish to make valuable changes to their life.

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5 Things to do If You Have Just Been Ghosted

If you have recently been ghosted you’re left feeling confused, abandoned, and overcome self-doubt. Ghosting is the practice of ending a personal relationship with somebody unexpectedly and without explanation, finally withdrawing from all communication.

Ghosting has been in existence since the start of time, however with today’s technology it is more overt and we notice it more quickly. With smartphones, instant messaging, social networking, texting, and dating sites, we know when someone has received our message or voicemail but has chosen not to respond.  Among the worst feelings is when you see in your text messaging the individual read your text ago and chose not to respond, which leaves you wondering why. The”why” is the thing that keeps us guessing, searching for answers, it is what keeps us up at night.

More often than not, after we are ghosted we do all the wrong things. We reach out to the individual numerous times, getting no response and feeling worse. We have a tendency to turn our despair inward and try to find error in ourselves and we resist meeting new people in fear that they’ll ghost us as well.

In a bid to assist anyone who has experienced or will experience ghosting, I’ve compiled 5 instrumental steps you may wish to take so as to feel better about the situation and get back in your psychological feet again.

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Is this True Love or Love Bombing?

Dedicated to advocating a fresh outlook for individuals, and offering them the necessary tools to create an authentic, fabulous lifestyle – Ashley Berges, syndicated talk show host of Live Your True Life PERSPECTIVES, founder, and host of The Celebrity PERSPECTIVE (a new web series launching this autumn ), is also renowned life coach, in-demand keynote speaker, modern philosopher, acclaimed author and clinical psychologist.

With over 100k followers on Social Networking and a series that airs six days a week, both nationally and internationally on multiple platforms & platforms such as iTunes, Spreaker, iHeart Radio, Radio Monterey, KLIF 570 News, and Identify Radio UK.   Ashley, often called”The Man Whisperer,” winners her knowledge and expertise to coach people on how to: expose dating, sex and relationship pitfalls, deftly navigate through divorce, confront the challenges of the family afterward, cultivate influential leadership abilities, and winner your true life.  

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Dealing with a person with Histrionic Personality Disorder

once we give in to someone or placate them, we are not helping them to develop and we are acting contrary to our values and beliefs to maintain the peace.

When you’ve got a relative or partner with Histrionic Personality Disorder (HPD), stepping back might not be an option. However you might not need to if you recognize how to maintain strength and bounds in the connection. Like anything else in life, once we understand fully what we’re dealing with, we can understand how we would like to engage, react, or step back from a circumstance.

When we give in to someone or placate them, we are not helping them to develop and we are acting contrary to our values and beliefs to maintain the peace. Position one’s ground is challenging and may feel overwhelming, however in such scenarios, you can’t lose your identity or undermine it for somebody else.

This movie explains how to understand and correctly deal with somebody with Histrionic Personality Disorder. Knowing the signs of HPD is vital to understanding what you are honestly dealing with. If you missed last week’s article about the best way best to recognize HPD you can find it HERE.

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Gaslighting can do severe damage particularly when it goes undetected. Gaslighting is persistent manipulation and brainwashing over a time period by means of lies, redundancy, control, and shallow kindness. At first, the gaslighter or the manipulator creates lies about another person. These lies are supposed to make the other individual question themselves in their core. They’re intended to create confusion and sadness within the individual being manipulated. With time the individual being manipulated begins to believe the lies and starts to doubt themselves and their worth.In and of itself is abusive however, there is another dimension added — minutes of love and care. Throughout this procedure, the manipulator adds love and attention randomly. These activities of love make the individual being manipulated question what’s truly happening. These activities give false hope and make the person think that everything will get better. At this time, the manipulator has another person right where they need them.In this video, I explain the procedure, how it works and what you will need to do to safeguard yourself.[embedded material ] [embedded material ] If you think in the work we’re doing here at The Great Men Project, please join us as a Premium Member, now. All Premium Members get to See The Great Men Project with NO ADS.A $50 annual membership provides you an all-access pass. You can be a part of each telephone, group, class, and community.A $25 yearly membership provides you access to a single class, one Social Interest group, and our online communities. A $12 annual membership provides you access to our Friday calls with the publisher, our online community. [CDATA[ #rcp_user_login_wrap display: none;.rcp_form fieldset padding: 10px ! important; ]]> Register New Account Need more info? A whole list of advantages is here.◊♦◊Get the best stories from The Great Men Project delivered right to your inbox.

The”secret” ingredient which makes this sort of abuse so tough to comprehend and escape.

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How to Manage Passive-Aggressive Behavior

More frequently than not, we do not realize when someone is displaying passive-aggressive behaviour until it is too late. However, when we are in a position to comprehend the problem immediately, we can take positive steps to better the circumstance.

We {} determine what we have contributed to the circumstance. Is there something we have done or did not do to make the individual feel helpless or helpless? If so, then we could straighten out the situation, if not, then we will need to go further to know.

So as to positively make adjustments to the circumstance, we have to take the leadership role, identifying the part we play in the circumstance. Watch this video to find the info you will need to positively address a individual displaying passive-aggressive behavior.

Take a look at part one on this subject: what’s Passive-Aggressive Behavior?

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