–Three loaded words. They imply infatuation, fascination, hope, desire, despair, happiness, fear, jealousy, devotion, and a shit-ton more. We state them when we think we mean them when we expect we mean them when we know we do not mean them when we can not help but mean, when we just utilized to mean them. They’re a watershed for each affair, hopefully, when you have exhausted your capacity to express affection and gratitude for somebody by saying that you like them, love them, love them, etc. You say them once you end up prefixing every compliment with”actually,” using more superlatives than an over-caffeinated preteen, and you’re powerless to convey your feelings in any other conditions.You say them if a individual becomes the axis around which your ideas and feelings revolve, and you know you could not deny them whatever it was in your power to give them. You say them once you know you could forgive a person for so much your sanity and well-being are theirs to undergird or dismantle. You say, like someone who’s just sober enough to understand {} drunk, waving helplessly and thankfully goodbye to a sense of control and objectivity.The first time you opt not to say them, when you admit to yourself that you have not supposed them in a while, or when you would still imply them, but it has become immaterial, is often the most painful experience of your lifetime. They’re, possibly, the three riskiest words in the English language, and anyone who has lived, really lived, knows they’re as much of a precipice as strong bedrock. When you have everything to lose and you are prepared to put it down for somebody, you say, a prayer and a promise,”I love you”–What’s Next in The Great Men Project? Improve your relationships. Join our Love, Sex, Etc..  Connect the Sex, Love Etc.. We think you will enjoy our SOCIAL INTEREST GROUPS–WEEKLY PHONE CALLS to talk, gain insights, build communities– and help resolve some of the most troublesome challenges the world has now. Calls are for Members Only (though you can combine the first call for free). Join now! Join The Great Men Project Community All levels get to see The Great Men Project website AD-FREE. The $50 Platinum Level is an ALL-ACCESS PASS–combine as many groups and courses as you need for the whole year. The $25 Gold Level gives you access to some ONE Social Interest Group and ONE Class–along with other benefits listed below the form. Or…for $12, join as a Bronze Member and support our mission, and have a {} ad-free viewing experience. <! Please note: If you’re already a writer/contributor in The Great Men Project, log in here prior to enrolling. (Request a new password if desired ).◊♦◊ANNUAL PLATINUM membership ($50 annually ) includes:1. AN ALL ACCESS PASS — Combine all of our weekly forecasts, Social Interest Groups, courses, workshops, and personal Facebook groups. We have at least one group phone call or internet class each and every day of the week. 2. See the site with no advertisements when logged in! 3. MEMBER commenting badge. ***ANNUAL GOLD membership ($25 annually ) includes all of the benefits above — but only ONE Weekly Social Interest Group and ONE class. ***ANNUAL BRONZE membership ($12 per year) is great if you aren’t ready to join the complete conversation but wish to support our mission anyway. You’ll still receive a BRONZE commenting badge, and you can pop into any of our weekly Friday Calls with the Publisher when you have time (Friday calls only). This is for men and women that think –just like we do–that this conversation about men and changing characters and goodness in the 21st century is one of the most important conversations you can get now. Need more details? Click here. ♦◊♦We’ve pioneered the biggest worldwide conversation about the changing roles of men in the 21st century. Your support of our work is inspirational and valuable. What We Talk About When We Talk About Guys –Photo courtesy iStock.

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Can She Be Attracted to Me?

Many men pay too much attention to body language — if she is holding her arms this way… Many men are searching for signals from her body language, but they are not leading with their own bodies.

You must lead with your own body. As an example, let’s say you are out on a date with a girl and you are talking. If you lean back in your seat, she is likely to lean back to hers — usually people mimic one another’s body languages.

So how do you know that she is not just mimicking you — how do you know if she’s actually interested?

You need to be the leader from the body language match. You need to be the man that gets her to do what you’re doing.

What I’ll occasionally do on a date is mix it up. I will lean back in my seat, and then when she says something especially interesting, I’ll lean forward. I will get her to accompany me. If she is interested in me, she will also lean forward.

One more thing which I’ll do is put my hands on the table as I am leaning forward. I will then watch to determine if she puts up her hands there too. Sometimes she will move her hands closer to my own hands so that literally the middle of the table is the dividing line between our nearly touching palms.

Why? It’s to do with this teasing aspect. Life is all about teasing.

So then I’ll lean back like this, and I will see where she is at. If she leans back too, then I understand that she is after my guide and mimicking me. I’m leading and she is following — that is what you want!

Perhaps five or six minutes later, I will do the same thing and lean ahead. This time I will put my hands over the dividing line and I will see how close she will move her hands.

She might put her hands over the dividing line also, on my side of the desk. It follows that we have broken each other’s personal space boundaries.

These are a few of the little clues which it is possible to read into as it comes down to body language. You need to play it a little bit.

Do you find the difference? It is all about playing; following and leading, leading and following.

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