Real-ationships. Real-ation ships are a continuous transformational workshop. I love the reflections this beautiful being offers me daily. I’m extremely grateful to keep on dying and falling into the abyss of love with this happening. While I don’t tag Dara Stara as a women, as a partner, in a relationship, or some other limiting notion of what we are. I then get to meet this amazing creative expression of life force anew each and every moment.It has been 4 years since your smile came to that dance hall and captivated my soul. 4 years you’ve shown me what unconditional love feels like. 4 years you’ve shown me the beauty of girls beyond surface and form picture. 4 years you’ve called me on my bullshit and asked me to show you that the grander version of me. 4 years you have shown me a mirror so that I can detect my lies and false patterns of security and closing. 4 years you have cared for me, danced with my pain and accepted me when I’ve shut off to love and life. 4 years we’ve laughed, cried, striped and danced ourselves NAKEDly bare. 4 years we’ve consented to showing up transparently regardless of how challenging it’s been. I know we both believe time is merely a restriction and a man made construct. What is 4 years in the core!Each time I fall into the abyss of love with you, every minute I genuinely see you, genuinely see you, your struggles, your smiles, your small actions of loving kindness, your pain body activates, your beauty, your silliness, your lies and truth, your inquisitive mind, your glow, your life, your mothering, and also the force which animates you. WOW it is in fact a present to learn more about the freedom of love, sexuality, and life with you. To come together to free one another. True commitment to this exploration is the liberty.Why do I share this now? Not to get some enjoys or dopamine. I share this to honor and acknowledge the power and significance of connection and to provide to all people out there, I believe we have a duty to show what’s possible when we truly honour another being. To the guys I say honor the Yoniverse, what do I mean by this statement? — I believe that a women is a huge sea of boundless power that if cultivated and educated, can crack us open to love in ways we can’t even comprehend. No words can express what I am pointing also.This isn’t about romantic, co-dependent, man women love. A women is the carrier of life, yes the guy offers their vital life force too and men must be honoured and respected just the same — But in this case I’m inviting that we change our views on what men, women, love, and relationships are really for. What is there true purpose in this present stage of evolution?A women has a yoni (vagina) for those unfamiliar with that name. And this is a bridge, a door if you will, into a huge ocean of intelligence. When we as guys quit thinking a yoni is simply for sexual needs. But instead begin realizing this is the entrance point, the gateway into a complete Yoniverse, multi Yoniverses! .And when we as people are ready to educate ourselves on how genitals function, how polarity energizes and magnifies our creative capacity, how a women can be opened to her own innate power, the way the yin yang unifies, how we can cultivate the energetic control of 2 electromagneticforces, and then use that power to move mountains… this is the tip of the iceberg I am pointing to and humbly exploring (with vulnerability and resistance ).I’ve had a glimpse of the potential. Imagine if we as beings come along with the pure intention of serving humanity by enjoying ourselves and honouring another with the willingness to encourage the freedom of our suppression. We’re all sexually suppressed. It’s in the oppression of the ability of our genitals which has the entire human species locked in fear, helplessness and powerlessness. (And the rest of the survival decreasing e-motions we feed daily). We aren’t only here to create more infants and get a home and job that pays the bills! Our bodies have Intelligence we’ve been to distracted to research. Genital power.We’re aLIVE at a time when we are being called to what is greater. To THRIVE. What’s our goal as mythical gods in the flesh. If we have our power as electromagnetic forces of production. If we bring coherence into mind, soul and body (the same thing) if we do what’s necessary to bring us back to radical wholeness. Is it that our comprehension of genitals, sex, human body, our entire capability, our power, our potential, our freedom has indeed been suppressed in order to keep us locked into invisible prisons and our energy harvested and used to serve these illusionary cult-ures {} agreed to serve — willingly or unwillingly. From me. From close to openness. From survival to production.– — ◊♦◊Have you read the first anthology which was the catalyst for Your Great Men Project? ◊♦◊If you think in the work we’re doing here at The Great Men Project and wish to join our calls on a regular basis, please join us as a Premium Member, now. All Premium Members get to See The Great Men Project with NO ADS.Need more info? A whole list of advantages is here.–Photo credit: Dara and Simon

Real-ationships are a method of constantly transforming yourself.

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A Love Letter to Money

Uh, feel the distress? We are living in a world where money has a subtle foul flavor. Love and money — they do not go together, do they?

Well, today I’m writing this blog to challenge this profoundly engraved idea in our collective mind. It’s not to overlook or {} the status quo of the planet now — being that more than half of their wealth on this planet it possessed by 5 percent of the people. However, to bring back the sacredness of cash and it has long standing history of misuse and misunderstanding and our obligation as open conscious people with it. I need to present the perspective that money is really utterly empty. And this emptiness is where it is mystery and magical lives. It’s so formless that it resembles the essence of water hence we use words such as fluid, cash flow and money in the dealings with cash. Water is characterized by the shape of the vessel it breaks in. It becomes contaminated by a dirty tank and stagnant if retained with no ability to flow. It’s one of the fundamental components of life without which no life in the world would be possible. Imagine if we can see money like this? Wouldn’t that imply that who we’re on the inside will determine how money is on the outside? For me that pushes forth a very strong obligation to take care of money knowingly, lovingly and abundantly. It can’t adapt to what you aren’t. It can only be that you are. So if you’re in lack and fear around it, it is going to take the odor of fear and scarcity to it and move it deeper into our collective consciousness. Money is remarkably moldable and can make evil at the hands of an unclean person and magic at the hands of a conscious being.

SCARCITY IS A DISTORTION THAT AFFECTS OUR GIVING HUMAN HEART LIKE AN AUTOIMMUNE DISEASE.

After stumbling upon Peta Kelly’s facebook live show on aware money magic, I reawakened the insight I want to take care of money like a buddy or better even: enthusiast. There’s absolutely no use in speaking bad about it or labelling it as the origin of all evil, especially not if you are like me, considering large change and have dreams of a far more beautiful world that my heart knows is possible. The truth is it’s the obligation of the open, loving and conscious people of the earth to change the collective cash story by modifying their own. How else could it be done? So I wrote a love letter to cash. And a couple of days later, cash walked in.

We’ve advocated this love letter to a lot of people and all who have followed it, felt tremendously enriched and empowered. But be ready for the unexpected. And be certain that you circulate it, keeping it clean and fresh!

We never actually had a terrific relationship. You, me and the entire world. You’re not enough for Dad so how can you have been for me? Although I had everything and you’re around more than for many people on this world, I believed you were somehow absent on your larger fullness. But money, I want to inform you that I adored you, really admired you more than I could confess. It was because of the odd sense of lack, I would talk bad about you behind your back. I am extremely sorry for that. I held onto you occasionally, tucked you away and counted your pennies. Hoping to get more of you only to realise that you draw and hold back when I’m clingy. My mindset of deficiency was a breach to your boundless nature and it created tension between you and me.

Today I know that you aren’t mine and I’m not yours. We are only here to dance, to make the world a little brighter and hearts a little lighter. You’re an infinite global energy force that comes from origin and goes back to supply. Just like me.

You’re like water and I’m your vessel. I have cleaned up my interior, so you can now pour and flow through me without picking up any debris of old conclusions and scarcity.

I’m your conduit, use me, so we can bring great change for this world. Together we can achieve much more.

I accept my responsibility for a heart open soul to circulate your universal energy through my life back in the world. I fully understand {} not the time to wait for those”who have more” to begin giving, but it’s mine — right now, right here! The more I give, the more I have to give. When I do this with complete existence, you surround me, proceed towards me like a fervent lover going on the first date.

Your presence in my life is profoundly appreciated. You give me everything I need and much more! I am so thankful for your service and the many surprising ways you show up. Always with a gift in mind, you can’t come empty handed. And the fruits of your existence grow magically lush and abundantly in my backyard of change.

Sometimes I’m still not positive if I can let you know how much I actually love you. I am afraid myself and others will judge me for only being after you. But I am denying that this is merely an old app direct me by the depth of my youth, where you’re never properly acknowledged and adored, seen or recognized as the infinite supply of energy that you truly are.

So now I declare my love for you openly. I no longer have to hide from you. I no longer have to undervalue myself as a way to keep you away from me. I’m proud to be with you. I’m eager to create you. I’m excited to change my world with you.

And I look forward to making love with you. More love from the world is definitely something we could do with. People have told me you’re wicked and the cause of so much suffering on this planet. But that is only because you’re at the hands of too many dirty containers which polluted you with their filthy attachments and desire for power. In reality you need healing and nurture yourself. Now I can see just how much you want me in this world, too! You want me to make you pure and clean again. I can do this for you. I promise not to mistreat you or lock you away. My love for you is too huge and open. I will not collect you with no purpose, I will set you free, so you can make love with other people, also. I know you only wish to flow. Like water, infinitely nurturing all creation with your greatest frequency.

You’re my lover, you’re my friend, supporter and co-creator. I love you.

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If You Can’t love your Spouse the way they are, let them Move

I like this excerpt from Don Miguel Ruiz publication: The Mastery of Love

“Once you accept yourself just the way You’re, the next step is to take
your partner. Should you choose to be with a person, do not try to change anything about her, then let her know who she is; she’s a right TO BE FREE.

When you inhibit your spouses freedom, you inhibit your own as you’ve got to be there to find out what your partner is doing or not doing. And if you adore YOUR-self so much, you’re never going to give up your private FREEDOM.

Be your-self. Find someone who matches with YOU. If it DOESN’T work, then do your-self and your spouse a favor; WALK AWAY, Permit him/her go, do not be selfish. Give your partner the chance to obtain what they truly want and at exactly the exact same time give your-self the chance. When it is not going to work, it is far better to LOOK at a DIFFERENT direction.

IF YOU CANNOT LOVE YOUR PARTNER THE WAY SHE IS, someone else can LOVE her as she / he is.

Do not waste your time and do not Waste your spouse’s time. This is RESPECT.

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Simply embracing and implementing such words will change each of your relationships. Conscious relationships built on actual love have to be learned, not because I say so, but because to have a true loving encounter you need to love yourself and not require another to fulfil you. It is common sense when you break it down.

Treat others the way you want to be treated
Simplicity is Divinity

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In Dec 2016 I came across this gorgeous soul on a mission to talk about his experiences in this gorgeous puzzle we call life. Wim Hof called the Iceman captured the attention of scientists when he demonstrated he had been able to use meditation to remain submerged in ice for 1 hour and 53 minutes with no core body temperature shifting. Since that time, he has climbed Mount Everest in his shorts, resisted altitude illness, completed a marathon in the Namib Desert with no water and proven under a lab setting he’s in a position to influence his autonomic nervous system and immune system at will.I watched this Documentary where Wim offered to teach Matt Shea and Daisy-May Hudson to scale a freezing cold mountain in their shorts without getting cold. However, when Matt and Daisy signed up for the practice, they had no idea that the so-called Iceman was likely to direct them on a psychedelic journey across Europe that circled the chasm between science, mystery and spirituality.Since December I’ve been using the simple breathing technique which I’ve added below for you to start practicing too. It’s helped me with concentration during my meditations and yoga training. It’s helped me to get more current and aware and encouraged my physical strength. We do the procedure before meditation, yoga and other physical practices. Dara and myself today share this technique on our events and NAKED retreats. The results people are having are inspiringly deep. We love hearing the stories buddies share when they’ve started implementing this simple practice in their everyday routines. Recently we have just bought the 10 week online video lessons and will begin exploring this method somewhat deeper.The Wim Hof Method is like Tummo (internal heat) Meditation and Pranayama (yogic breathing). Yet it is something different entirely. While Wim has read a great deal of books on yoga and meditation for several years, this technique primordially comes from what he terms’cold hard nature’. By exposing himself to the bitter states of character, he discovered to withstand the extreme forces of cold, warmth and dread. If you learn this method or procedure properly, it is going to enable you to perform to the same.The first part is a breathing exercise that may be likened to controlled hyperventilation. That is, of course, an oxymoron. Hyperventilation is something that happens involuntarily. But just imagine the breathing part, with no of stress activates that normally cause this method of breathing. The picture will consist of rapid breathing which makes one languid, invigorates one, makes one high on oxygen.Step by step explanation breathing exercise (taken from Wims site )1) Get comfy Sit in a meditation posture, whatever is most comfortable for you. Ensure you are able to expand your lungs without feeling any constriction. It’s suggested to do this exercise right after waking up as your stomach remains empty or prior to a meal.2) 30 Power BreathsImagine you are blowing up a balloon. Inhale through the nose or mouth and exhale through the mouth in brief but powerful bursts. Maintain a steady pace and use your midriff fully. Close your eyes and do this around 30 times. Symptoms could be light-headedness, tingling sensations in the body.3) The Hold, retention following exhalationFollowing the 30 rapid successions of breath cycles, then draw the breath in once more and fill the lungs to maximum capacity without using any force. Then allow the air out and hold for as long as possible without force. Hold the breath till you experience the gasp reflex.4) Recovery Breath Feel your chest expanding. When you’re at full capacity, hold the breath for about 10 seconds and this will be around one. The breathing exercise can be repeated 3 rounds after each other.5) After having finished the breathing exercise take your time to enjoy the feeling afterward. After doing the breathing exercise and you are feeling good, you can begin with taking the cold shower.Summary+ 30 times balloon blowing / circular breathingBreathe in fullyBreathe out with no force and grip until gasp reflexInhale completely and hold for 10 minutes. Repeat until completed and recuperate from the breathing exercise. Insert push-ups or yoga poses during the time that you’re holding your breath till you await the gasp reflex. See that you are more powerful without atmosphere than you would usually be if you can breathe! Daily stress disconnects you with your brain stem that keeps you in flight or fight. The Brain Stem is the reptilian brain / Amygdala which modulates survival mechanisms and physiological motor control / hormones.This breathing technique eliminates the co2 in the body that will enrich the oxygenation and O2 from the body. It takes you deep into the nervous system.Controlled hyperventilationHyperventilation generally makes you gasp for air and activates the struggle & flight response. In this controlled nicely instead you oxygenise the cells and blood. CO2 goes down and Oxygen goes in and the PH levels in the blood goes up. BENEFITS; You receive a surging rush ofDopamine (Entertaining Hormone)Oxytocin (Love hormone)Serotonin (Comfort hormone)& Taps into pure adrenalin + Breathing is chemistry / oxygen is chemistry in the body Energy increases making our mood change in positive ways Improving health and gaining internal energy Enhances circulation Improves psychological and bodily well-being Enhances cardiovascular health helps control your autonomic nervous system Helps clear your mind and good before meditation sitting helps you more present and aware Its aids in stress release Helps cure depression lets you take more oxygen to your system when relaxed depletes oxygen levels – surpassing the 100% to the cells and circulatory system that makes the chemistry Alkaline. I hope this article was of advantage to youKeep loving yourself enough to do the things that make you flourish and enhance others lives ❤ — — ◊♦◊Have you read the first anthology which was the catalyst for Your Great Men Project? 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Wim Hof, called the Iceman, captured the attention of scientists when he managed to use meditation to remain submerged in ice for 1 hour and 53 minutes without his core body temperature shifting.

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