Hi Ladies, Tiffany today. Do you need to learn how to spark an instant connection with someone new? Below are some easy to follow dating ideas that will allow you to make a wonderful first impression!Of course you need to make a terrific first impression when you meet someone new, especially if someone is a handsome possible boyfriend. It is really easier than you would believe! Here are four easy dating pointers that will assist you shine….It’s easy to get caught up in a one-sided dialog, where you speak non-stop about yourself in a bid to impress, especially if your nerves take over. Regrettably, this tactic will often backfire, leaving him disinterested, and leaving you wondering why. Next time you meet a new guy, avoid the temptation to over-share. Rather than making it all about you, keep the dialogue flowing back and forth. Needless to say, do not interrogate him with questions. Respond with real interest, and actually get to know each other!Stay Cool, Calm, And Collected It is normal to feel somewhat anxious and jittery on a first date. But do not let your nerves get the best of you! Take a deep breath, relax and concentrate on him. Odds are he is just as nervous as you, so make him feel at ease and the conversation will flow naturally! Speaking of conversation, be sure to speak slowly and clearly. Rambling on is a certain indication of insecurity. Men are attracted to confidence, and when he feels comfortable when he is with you he is going to want to spend more time with you!Be Aware Of Body Language According to Psychology Today, being in sync with another individual is attractive. If you correct your posture to meet his, and follow his gestures, it is going to make you infinitely more alluring. To establish an immediate connection, mirror the tip of his head, make eye contact, smile when he smiles, and change your body along with him. We can communication volumes with our own bodies! Occasionally lean in toward him when he says something interesting. Keep you feet pointed forward towards him, with your legs uncrossed and comfy. Arms should be also be uncrossed in a natural position with your hands open and relaxed. And be somewhat flirtatious by touching your jewelry or your own hair. This is considered positive body language, a hot topic when it comes dating tips for women!Keep Things Actual All of us know and love Gregg Michaelsen, Boston’s shirts dating coach, and bestselling writer of dating information books. If you have read any of his novels, you know self-esteem is an integral issue in his dating tips for women. Gregg reminds us over and over again that we’re quality ladies, and we should never change ourselves for anybody or give up who we are, especially for a guy. Do not lie and say things simply to impress a man. Be honest and open about your likes and dislikes from the beginning, and allow him to get to know the real you, and how amazing you are! If he does not like you for who you are, or if you do not have anything in common, he is not a great fit for you anyhow! Do not sweat it. You can have your pick of men, and your ideal match might be just around the corner waiting to have an immediate connection with you! Nerves can find the best of him also, and there might be an excellent man hidden under all that narcissistic, insecure drifting. Now if he makes it all about him when you meet again, that is a whole’nother story!This post was previously printed Who Holds the Cards Now? and is republished here with permission from the author. –◊ ◊Have you read the first anthology which was the catalyst for Your Great Men Project? Purchase here: The Great Men Project: Real Stories from the Front Lines of Modern Manhood ◊ ◊If you think in the work we’re doing here at The Great Men Project and wish to join our calls on a regular basis, please join us as a Premium Member, now. All Premium Members get to See The Great Men Project with NO ADS.Need more info? A whole list of advantages is here.–Photo credit: iStock

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