Q: I’m seeing this guy and he is great, but something keeps bugging me. He REALLY reminds of my ex! Despite the fact that they look and sound completely different, there’s nothing about the way he looks at me and his voice which keeps me remembering my ex. How do I get beyond this?
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A: Well, the first thing is that may have drawn your ex in a different body. If we do not get the lesson, even if we do not do the job, if we do not reap the benefits of growth that a previous relationships has supplied us and we’re just the identical person, you’re going to attract someone that’s precisely the same, in another body. Look there first. How do you get beyond this? I don’t believe you should. I think you should trust your gut, trust what is bugging you, and take a look. Maybe this is the connection where you could change it. Maybe this is the connection where you could grow in the connection, in the flame. What’s off in that instant? What’s out of alignment with your values? Something is there in the minutes that’s hoping to talk to you. This time, appear, this time do the job, this time — develop. Now, this doesn’t mean you’re going to remain with him or split up. We don’t understand that future because we can not control him but you can control you, you are able to take responsibility for you.
So start there and if you will need some help with being convinced in that, my novel — How To Be and Stay Sexy — has numerous practices about the way to maintain your body, valuing yourself, unattached to the outcome, the invitation, and also to understand exactly what you deserve. So if that is going to encourage you, I’d definitely check that out. You also know how to get in touch with me if you want some instruction — allanapratt.com.
Until next time, all of my love.
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