–I spent a recent weekend with one of my customers and I had a terrific conversation that I wanted to share with you. David: I have seen this for so long — and each and every guy does this. They move from being anything they were when they started (possibly shy or introverted) to being way over the top.What they overlook along the way (in their journey to being way over the top) is to truly listen to another person when they’re having a conversation.You’ve got great discussions, but what I watched last night (when you approached that drunk girls — and that is all they were, only drunk, dumb women. The entire purpose of last night was NOT to strategy and merely to observe. I don’t understand, but they all turned me off! Every single one of these — their behavior, the way they walked, talked, the way they carried themselves. They had so much negative energy — I did not enjoy it at all.)However, you went up and you like declared yourself like boom! I’m here! The simple fact of the matter is that you’re far more Zen-like in your character than that! You need to really tone it down a little bit and simply observe more.You’ve proven to yourself that you can walk up to everyone — great. That is the first step that each and every guy has to do. Now, you will need to say to yourself, I will approach anyone, congratulations, I know I will do it. Congratulate yourself and give yourself a very big pat on the back — it is a big step.Now you will need to become very keen to everything that’s going on in your surroundings. The reason I didn’t really speak to anyone last night was that there was no one there that was interesting to speak to — not 1 woman. None.So now when we walk around, we are all going to work inside our own surroundings. It’s our environment that provides us the clues.Don’t be concerned about missing a girl. If you miss one, that is fine. You can not have all of them, because if you do, you enter pick up mentality and that is really not attractive.Do you recall Dragnet? It is like,”here we’re downtown in a city in the usa. Five men walking around picking up girls…”It actually looks like that! It doesn’t seem like five guys just having fun. It is all about having fun and having a fantastic time.You simply need to tone it down a little bit and go in there with what I call an action plan: what do you see?I see it quite fast — I see it like THAT. You guys might see it in a moment. You’ll miss a couple more chances but that is okay. Watch, take in the surroundings, look around and see what is happening around you. What do you see?There are several tourists out here now! This is much better than LA.. LA is an excellent place — but here it is mellower, more laid-back — you will find endless amounts of people down here now.July and August are tourist weeks. If you are going to come to Seattle, you are only likely to come in July and August. That is why this is fantastic place to do this as it’s a target-rich atmosphere.Client: There is the Danskin Triathlon tomorrow morning at 7:00 with 4,000 people!David: That is not fun at 7:00 am!Todays movie is a shocking one.Have you ever opened a girl using dead bunnies?–[embedded material ] [embedded material ]– This post was previously published on www.davidwygant.com and is republished here with permission from the author.– —What is your take? Comment below or write a reply and submit to us your {} or reaction here in the red box, below, which links to our admissions portal site. ◊♦◊Subscribe to our Writing Prompts email to receive writing inspiration in your inbox twice weekly. If you think in the work we’re doing here at The Great Men Project, please join us as a Premium Member, now. All Premium Members get to See The Great Men Project with NO ADS.A $50 annual membership provides you an all-access pass. You can be a part of each telephone, group, class, and community.A $25 yearly membership provides you access to a single class, one Social Interest group, and our online communities. A $12 annual membership provides you access to our Friday calls with the publisher, our online community. Register New Account Need more info? A whole list of advantages is here.◊♦◊Get the best stories from The Great Men Project delivered right to your inbox. Photo credit: Shutterstock

I spent a recent weekend with one of my customers and I had a terrific conversation that I wanted to share with you.

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