Foods Which Boost your Libido

Foods that Boost your Libido

Foods that Boost your LibidoThe oyster was heralded for many years as food which could increase the libido and put you in the mood for a little loving with your partner, but oysters are not exactly something people eat daily. Fortunately there are other more common foods that boost your libido when providing a spark to your sexual desire that could cause you to be a hit with your wife or girlfriend this day. Below you will find 7 foods that will get you into the mood obviously without needing to go through plenty of trouble to do it.

The Aztecs called avocado”ahuacatl” or”testicle tree” because of its similarity to a certain part of the body, but they’re also aptly named because they vitamin B6 and potassium nutrients which may help raise you hormone production (i.e. your libido). They also contain folic acid that enables you to metabolize proteins to have more energy once the fun begins.

Nuts are packed with essential fatty acids that aid in your body’s production of hormones, help in providing you with energy to please your girl and it’s reported that almonds may inspire fire on people when smelled.

This fruit comprises the bromelain enzyme which could help increased the libido and reverse impotence in men. They also are full of potassium, vitamin B6 and riboflavins that boost your body’s energy.

There’s something about berries which bring out the eroticism and help to raise the libido for both men and women; from the sweet, succulent aroma to the suggestive nature when you feed it to your spouse. Strawberries can get your fire working double time to produce a night together one to remember.

Sure it is not the sexiest of foods on the menu, but liver comprises glutamine that’s been proven to help increase a slowed-down libido in men in addition to fuel and boost your immune system.


These little fruits are full of amino acids that could help {} the libido going and improve your sexual stamina. Figs also have a sensuous element to them using their tangy, sweet odor and their suggestive shape that could find a woman subconsciously in the mood before trying.


The sweet treat includes phenylethylamine, the chemical thought to make that feeling of being”in love” as well as theobromine, an alkaloid that’s very similar to caffeine that could provide energy for a night of loving.

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Men, Sex Won’t Make You Whole

Every man has felt it.

Yes, he’s felt it. I’ve felt it. He’s inside of her.

“Ooh baby, you are so remarkable. I love you. I love you. I love you!’

He’s gone back to his infancy, to his roots, to the uterus.   As Robin Williams once said, a guy spends trying to escape and the rest of his life trying to reunite in.

“Ooh baby, if I could stay inside of you forever…”

He seeks the entering, the being indoors, the thrusting, the loving, and then… the moment of orgasm, when he gives himself away.

How good it seems to give it all away.

To say”f*#k it” with all his energy, after an entire day of keeping it together.   The best freedom.  The little death, “la petite mort,” as the French say.

As much as he needs to sustain the bliss, it all ends in a split second.  And frequently he feels empty then — exhausted, depleted, half dead.

He no longer wants to remain inside of her forever. His member is taken.

His illusion is dismantled. He knows it’s not possible to stay inside.  She can’t make him whole.  He feels empty.

“Tell me how much you love me,” she says.

“Huh?” he says.

And in the moment, he crashes into reality. He’s pulled from his myopia, the nearsightedness of his own pleasure.  He’s alerted to another. And he might even feel like a boy who has been found out.

“You mean, you do not really love me. You were only pleasuring yourself in my body.”

And sure, there are girls that are fine with a man pleasuring himself in her body. But that is a fling, not a serious long term relationship.

Nevertheless, a day or even an hour after, his appetite rises again. To re-engage the illusion that life and all things will be perfect once he is back inside of her. And the words come from his mouth.

“Awww baby, I adore you! If only…”

He is back to where he began. What is going on here?

Well, he has been removed — worked by his libido, his testosterone, his desire, or love. He’s not the master of it.  He doesn’t operate with his sexual energy, but has worked by it.

And he does not feel the price of the cycle until he is in his late twenties and frequently elderly. The relational cost to himself and his spouse. The expense of eventual…

An interior relational deadness.

In the absence of facing the issue, many men develop bitter. Job, blamebark. “Frigid Bitch.”

Or they spend years, searching for other girls, chasing the same”make me whole, baby” booty call. Many men finally just resign themselves to a sexless marriage or dating.

Rather, a person may answer the telephone.

The call to discover what he really seeks in sex — link and intimacy — and the way to experience those things, incorporated with his sexuality, rather than in lieu of.

The call to see her vagina as a sacred part of her that enhances familiarity, rather than a vehicle by which to simply delight himself.

The call to learn his own sexual energy, rather than something which masters him.

And this takes training.

To challenge the complacent pieces of himself.
To grow.
To become more relational.
To get larger in his capacity as a lover and ally to his spouse.

Sex alone will not make him whole.

But most guys won’t do the job until they’re forced to, until their marriage or relationship is near an end.

Yes, women’s sexuality is strong. Super powerful. The Yoni. The origin of all life. How can a person not be in awe?

Sex in a long term relationship ceases for a single reason.  Since there’s been a kink in the relationship between spouses.

It will not only get turned back magically.  It requires work — speaking hard truths, risking vulnerability, rebuilding trust, and frequently even risking divorce or separation.

Am I just wanting to party men?

Hell no.  I wish to help men, and women, have an energized and satisfying relationship.  And decent sex is definitely a part of that.

And let us be clear, girls have their role in the dynamic also. More on this next week.

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Relationship Alive! September 28, 2019 by Neil Sattin Leave a Comment –What should you do if you wish sex more than your spouse? Differences in sexual desire can cause so many issues in a relationship, and in today’s episode we tackle this issue head-on. There is something here for you no matter which side of the equation you are on. Here is a hint: typically, when differences in sex drive become”the problem” — there is actually something else happening. I will help you figure out exactly what they’re in your relationship, and find your way to some balance around sex that feels great to both you and your spouse. Along the way, you will determine if it is about a difference in libido — or if there is something standing in the way of your getting the sort of sexual relationship with your spouse that you want.LISTEN HERE: —A variant of the post was initially posted on and is republished here with permission from the author. Do you need to discuss the way to have richer, more mindful, and enduring relationships? ◊♦◊Photo: Screenshot

Differences in sexual desire can cause so many issues in a relationship, and in today’s episode we tackle this issue head-on.

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