Sometimes when computers replace people and would be the only mean of communication, there occurred to appear a unique sort of relationship. The one we call Long Distance Relationship.

It’s already complex to make a relationship work but more complex it is to make a long-distance relationship work. Whenever there are miles, states and tons of people in between. When the only time you get to listen to the voice of the person you love is on the phone, and if you long to be together every minute, every second of your life but realize it’s hardly possible.

Such relationships aren’t much different from any others. Love is love no matter how far you’re from each other. And they need the same degree of understanding, care, trust and faith as a normal relationship… Just let us say multiplied by 10 or perhaps even 100.

Being far away from someone you love you worry more than normal, you care more than normal, you miss more than normal. Just because unlike a number of other people that you can not get it or give it any time you would like to. And because the person that you want most of all when you are feeling down can not be constantly for you there. Though you understand {} not their fault.

The main issue here is communicating . Because of technology we get many chances for this. But it’s not always possible due to some personal situations such as running a hectic schedule or not having Internet access and whatnot. Sometimes it may happen you’re unable to speak properly for a couple of days. And needless to say, it will not help much in getting positive thoughts. Having understanding is important here because as soon as you eliminate this sense of reality and understanding it may even cause paranoia.

Important is I think to not expect much, I mean sometimes a simple”hi” or a missed call are sufficient since they make you understand that the person you love is thinking about you and is caring also.

Small things might become massive ones. A brief email with only”I love you” in it is going to make your day but when you do not talk for a few times you start going crazy and stressing that he/she may be sick, dead or what even worse dating somebody. Come on, why rather than the you just don’t feel that he/she just could not connect to the net and the phone was not working. Why is it in human nature to consider bad things from the very beginning??

In LDR the hardest issue is building up faith and trust . As soon as you’ve got this, and it must be 100%, things move a bit simpler. You don’t go mad about each little thing he does wrong and each new woman in his office. Trust is something which needs to be earned with time and it isn’t easy especially because you’re far away but if you love someone should not you be completely devoted to him/her, giving 100% to everything including faith and trust. When you believe in yourself, your spouse, the feelings you share, this belief should not be just like 50% or 70%. Only 100% is acceptable.

Long-distance relationships are really difficult and all of us know this. You get emotionally attached to a person you can’t touch or comfort. No hugs, kisses, even no hands. And sometimes that’s what you require a lot and it hurts badly once you don’t get it and it makes a mess up from your emotions and feelings. No information can be given. Staying strong and thinking about what you have is the only way out. Only you together can endure through all this, sharing things, discussing issues, being together when being far away.

As soon as you get to worry about something you need to discuss it. And it’s so much accurate especially when you can not be with someone you love and explore these things directly.

Tough is also that people around you do not know why you are so much preoccupied with somebody you seldom meet or maybe never met before. That might hurt but that is their position. In the long run, you know exactly what you feel, do not you?

Every type of relationship is always hard work and total dedication and devotion to somebody you love. Important is to keep true to your feelings, to be powerful, and to think that things will work out nicely. Despite the fact that everybody around says they will not.

The most complex thing of it is missing someone you love, missing their existence, missing their smiles and laughs, their signature, the sound of the voice. But if you love somebody, are not they already there? Always with you, in mind, in your mind. And if you know they feel the same way it makes things slightly less complicated.

When you love somebody, they never get lost; where they go, they’re still somewhere in your heart and as long as they understand they will always know that if they find you, they find themselves once more. Let us believe they know. And that however hard it may be you will handle it because in life what is not hard is not worth having at all.

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