–Consider this Zen-like principle: if you walk over to somebody and expect nothing, you are going to accept everything out of them. If you expect nothing from individuals, then you are going to accept every gift they give you — the gift of these, and the gift of sharing with you.Life is just a series of continual conversations. At any time you meet someone you connect with and find interesting, you need to keep that conversation together, right? You ask them out as a dialogue continuance:”oh my god, it was so good to speak to you about your dog and this excursion you just got back from. Hey, I want give you a call and find out more — give me your number.”It’s only a continual theme. That theme is linking — and you’re able to maintain that continual connection you have together in that moment of time.Many men will enter salesman-mode when they see a girl {} drawn to; they will only try to market themselves. “Buy me!” They continue to talk AT them instead of with them.But you know what a true connection feels like. If you are speaking to a woman and you are both with groups of people and her eyes can not stop looking at you — that is a connection. If she is directing all her energy, you know what that feels like.So if you are just going out there to practice listening and conversation skills, just speak to people all day long — that is important to do. But if you’re looking for a true connection, you need to weed through as fast as possible.These are the two measures: the first is to go out and speak with people and build your conversation skills, the next is to search for that connection.–This post was formerly published on www.davidwygant.com and is republished here with permission from the author. — ◊♦◊Have you read the first anthology which was the catalyst for Your Great Men Project? ◊♦◊If you think in the work we’re doing here at The Great Men Project and wish to join our calls on a regular basis, please join us as a Premium Member, now. All Premium Members get to See The Great Men Project with NO ADS.Need more info? A whole list of advantages is here.–Photo credit: Shutterstock

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