Life is Negotiable

As those of you who’ve been reading the blog know, I have been searching for a new home recently. Whenever I walk into a brand new home, or if I am thinking of buying a new vehicle, or audio equipment, video equipment, whatever — I walk in and examine the salesperson as they are going to begin their spiel and say,”you can not shut me. I’m not somebody you can ever shut. So you do not have to give me the spiel; allow me figure this out for myself. You can hang out with me for just a little bit, and if I like you, I will probably give you some company.”

They are simply trying to sell themselves.

Life isn’t about selling yourself. This is not a negotiation. When you approach someone you’re attracted to, you shouldn’t go up to them and record the”ten reasons why you should date me”

What it’s all about is getting to know somebody. Folks want to work with people who intrigue them. They need to work with someone they could imagine being friends with, with someone which makes them feel comfortable.

So you don’t need to market yourself so much! I have seen it all — people are really going to go completely over the top when trying to market themselves. They are attempting to negotiate a date from someone as opposed to simply relaxing, having fun, enjoying life and being completely present.

Life isn’t about negotiations. Life isn’t about selling yourself. Life is all about presenting the best version of yourself based on who you are and your own confidence.

Whenever I run into somebody who’s attempting to market themselves to me, I will look at them and say,”let me ask you a question: why are you trying to market yourself so much? Allow me to get to enjoy you for who you are — the REAL you. I don’t have to understand only the good parts about you — let me get to know ALL the pieces of you! Then I will have the ability to make an educated choice when it comes down to whether or not I wish to hang out with you.”

You might encounter somebody like me somebody who can not be closed!

And do not ever try to shut me if you meet me. I have a great deal of friends and a terrific network of contacts, and not 1 person I know is somebody who tried to shut me. They simply got to know me.

Todays movie is a live strategy and breakdown at Bed Bath and Beyond.

You’re going to learn what outside is!!

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