Not getting any? Well, you are not alone. In today’s busy world an increasing number of men are feeling the crunch when it comes to their sex lives for many different reasons which don’t always have to do with you. If you are not having sex with the girl in your life very often have a look at these 3 reasons why you are not having sex which could be to blame.
Why: One of the greatest pieces of sexual advice that anyone can provide you is too keep your mattress relegated to just sex and sleeping. Why? Since the more things that you do in bed and the more things you bring to bed, the more you and your partner begin considering it as”unsexy”. From laptops to operate and everything in between, making your bed”unsexy” makes the sex start petering off as you go to bed or wake up in the morning due to distractions and fatigue.
How to Fix the Problem: Attempt to make the mattress hot again by taking away the distractions before bed and focusing on your bed partner instead. It does not have to lead to sex every night, but spending a couple of minutes cuddling from the bed or just talking to each other may bring the intimacy back to your own bed and reset the settings on a”hot” bed.
The Reason: Your Meds are Taking Your Sex Drive
Why: Medicine is supposed to keep us healthy and ready for whatever, but some meds may have an opposite effect on the libido. By anti-depressants to blood pressure medication, cholesterol medication and narcotics, many drugs can affect the libido while helping to correct the health issue they have been prescribed for.
How to Fix the Problem: One thing you can do is consult with your physician to find out whether other medicines can be prescribed which assist with you health problems without inhibiting the libido. Some drugs affect the libido over others and your doctor will know more about the matter and how to fight it.
The Reason: You Are Too Tired/Too Busy
Why: People these days are often pulled in six different directions at once from work to children to family and a lot more. All this can lead to you not having sex as often because you’re too busy or too tired to put any effort into asking your girlfriend or wife for sex.
How to Fix the Problem: Bring spontaneity in your sex life by having sex during times that you may not have before such as on a lunch break or sneak off early in the day prior to your favorite show comes on. By having sex spontaneously you’re not as likely to let your hectic schedule or your fatigue at the end of the day prevents you from enjoying your spouse’s body to the fullest.